Have you ever seen a flower denying to give all of its daily nectar to a butterfly or honey bee ? We humans are like flowers for each other and at the same time we should behave like butterfly or honey bees. A butterfly daily consumes and fully absorbs whatever nectar is offered - a flower produces daily nectar and gives all until a butterfly or honey bee is full and happy.
Neither does a butterfly ask for more nor does a flower reject a butterfly before the butterfly is full. IN human relationship that means that women and men are a divine source of true love-nectar for each other and at the same time also are made to consume all love-nectar produced by our lover-man or lover-girl.
Quarreling, stress or fighting starts when one of the 2 in a relationship starts to ask for more love than all that is available or refuses to give less love than all love available.
Love is all that matters
Happiness in turn is created when both enjoy and fully absorb all love available and offer from the bottom of the heart all love produced. Love is like nectar of a plant and spiritual humans connected consciously to God are connected to an infinite "quantity" of love that each human lover can modify in infinitely various ways to satisfy the everlasting hunger for love-nectar by our partner.
Humans can be connected to an infinite source of love, humans can produce an infinite "amount" of love, selfishness, stinginess and fighting intentions are all ego-made and the beginning of the end of your happiness and everlasting honeymoon. Open your heart and let all love flow that is needed until your lover is full and fully satisfied by all needs what so ever ...
In turn - your lovers fountain of love will start to flow as well and supply or feed all your own needs of love until both are drunk of nectar of love - day after day, eternally.
To be a source of joy and love for your partner you need to absorb all love offered and to offer all love potential - both simultaneously. Focus on love and nothing but love and all else will vanish in the joy of being loved and being allowed to love freely and fully. Be like butterfly and flower - husband and wife - made to love, made to be loved, eternally.
